It is a fact that all men can cum with no stimulation to their penis…
All that is required is to not let your man cum under any circumstances, for any reason. Before we show you how you can accomplish this, one might ask, “Why do I want to make my husband have an anal orgasm anyways? The answer is simple. The transformation that will occur during the following process, will be sure to make your man more obedient, a better and more attentive lover, and overall better partner in life in and out of the bedroom…
So lets begin…
Set the stage:
The first thing you need to do is let your husband/boyfriend know your intentions. Tell him that you are going to run an experiment on him for your amusement. Let him know it will be tough, but the reward at the end of your experiment will be well worth it. Tell him that you are going to teach him how to have an “anal orgasm” where he will feel a full orgasm and cum without any stimulation to his cock whatsoever. Let him know that when he has it, that it will be the most intense orgasm of his life, and that the wait for this will be worth it. Also let him know that you do not know how long this will take, but it will involve lots of sex, but he is not allowed to cum. (this will make him interested for sure.)
Stage 1:
Every day you must tease your husband or boyfriend. You must make him hard, and if possible edge him every day. This is where you bring him really close, and then stop prior to the point of no return. Also be sure to tease him verbally, and talk dirty to him. Remind him how much you own him, and how he is to serve you. Make him bring you to orgasm as many times as you like and for him to do things like lick your ass. This is a giant turn on for submissive men. The main point of this stage, is to tease and deny for approximately 2-5 days following his last orgasm.
Stage 2:
This is very much the same as stage 1 except after 5 days, you will start to anally penetrate on a regular basis. After you tease him and his cock is really hard, flip him over, and start working his ass. Plant some triggers here while you are doing this. Tell him how horny he is, and how much he likes it when you fuck his ass. At this point, use your fingers, dildos, anything you have ever used in the past, and use lots of language to keep him turned on during this. Let him know what a good anal slut he is for you, and that good boys get great rewards. The point is, keep the tease and level of excitement high, while you penetrate his ass. As you are using your dildo, fingers, strap on, or whatever you want, ask him how it feels best. Slow it down, and speed it up, and try different things. Get him to tell you what feels best. Find out if slower or faster is better, and find the perfect speed that he likes a lot. Don’t just take his word for it, judge by how his body is reacting along with what he is saying. It would be a good idea to do this at least once every second day. This is part of the brain conditioning that it will take for him to have release without stimulation to his cock. For the ultimate and best results, at some point, switch to strap on only. Teach him that this is the way good boys get fucked. They get taken by their boss, where and however they want. Use varying rhythms, and lots of verbalization as you take him. Ask him to thank you, and let him know how much you are turned on by his obedience. Always let him know that there is a big reward at the end of this experiment.
Stage 3:
Pretty much, keep on repeating stage 2. Do it daily or at least very regularily. Make sure you talk to him while you are doing it. Make sure you make him hard everytime before you start doing this. Train him that when he gets hard and horny, your strap on cock is going in his ass. The more you do this, and the hornier he gets, the more he will crave your strap on. At this point it is really only a matter of time. The only rule you need to get from this point on, is that he does not get to cum ever again normally until he blows his load from you anally entering him. At some point his semen buildup will need to be released, and between your verbal encouragement, and cock teasing, it will happen. Definitely. The only thing that will vary is the amount of time it takes, and this will vary due to these 2 conditions. How old he is and how often he had orgasms before you started this experiment. Generally the older a person is, the longer this might take, and also the less frequent your man masturbated, or had orgasms, the longer it will take. If your man is past 50, and only orgasms once per week, this might take up to 2 months. If your man is 18 and is used to cumming multiple times per day, this might only take 3-4 days. Most people will fall in the middle of this and will cum within 30 days of this type of training…
One thing is for sure though. All men can cum through anal penetration only and this exercise is to find out how long that is for your man regardless. He does not get to cum again normally once you start this until he does by anal penetration only. Some women elect to make this the new way permanantly after this happens. Why? Because keeping your man in a suspended horny state that only cums from anal penetration at your control, will make your man more obedient, compliant, better lover, better house boy for doing chores, and much, much more. This experiment will open both of your eyes to a world of extreme production of the male, and blissfulness for the woman…
Here are some ideas, and some advice to couples
that are exploring a female led relationship that involves chastity.
These are not “advanced techniques” and I don’t claim to be an expert,
but in the 6 years we have played in the lifestyle, these are some of
the more important things I have learned. If you are looking to
completely dominate your husband in every aspect of your life, this is
probably not the article for you. If you are interested in having a
more fun, kinky, and exciting sex life, along with a little more control
in the household, and help your husband be a better partner to you,
this may help.
How long should he be locked?
I truly believe that it should be up to the keyholder and her alone,
but some people like to switch things up, so here are some fun ways to
let fate decide.
Determine the number of orgasm he has to give the keyholder before he earns an orgasm.
The keyholder could require him to provide her with 10 oral, 10
using a vibrator, and 10 using his cock before he earns the right to
have his own. Or 20 using his fingers and 5 using his mouth, and 5 with
a dildo, or strap on, you get the idea.
How about adding one day every time he has an orgasm, so if he made it 21 days this time he has to wait 22 next time.
There is a myriad of dice games that could be used. If you Google dice chastity game, you can find an endless supply.
Marbles seem to be another favorite, again if you Google marble chastity game, there are plenty to choose from.
I think a really fun one is to use trivia to determine his lock up
time. While lying in bed the keyholder can ask a series of questions
about anything she likes really, and for every answer the sub gets wrong
he gets a day or a week or whatever time period the keyholder desires
locked in chastity, this is fun because the keyholder is still
determining the lock up time, by the number of questions or how hard
they are. Try Keyholder trivia, she can ask questions about what she
likes, you can both have fun and learn what makes your keyholder happy!
I also think that it is a big turn on for the sub to know that
regardless what the “game” determines should be the lock up time, that
he knows it is ultimately what his keyholder decides, so when the time
arrives that he has earned his orgasm, simply tell him, “I know you were
supposed to have an orgasm today, but I have decided to keep you locked
another few days.”
Fun things for the Keyholder to say to keep the sub excited. I
think it is important for the keyholder to remember that for the sub in
chastity, it is a 24/7 commitment, and sometimes all it takes is the
smallest reminder from his keyholder to get his libido back up and
racing and keep it exciting for him.
“Tonight sweetie, you can be my little brown noser.”
“Oh! Sweetie, your cage looks tight and uncomfortable! Oh well, you will just have to suffer for me.”
“You haven’t thanked me for locking up your cock and controlling
your orgasms for you in quite a while. Do you have anything to say to
me?”
After he has given you an orgasm orally, you could say, “Sweetie you
are getting so good with your tongue, pretty soon I will never have to
unlock your cock!”
After inspecting his cage to make sure he is secure, you could say something like, “Hmmm, maybe we should get a size smaller.”
“Sweetie I seem to have lost the key, oh well, we won’t be needing it for a long time anyway.”
“Denying you is so much more fun than letting you orgasm, I might never let you cum again!”
Every time you lock his device, you should say something like, “Now
thank me for controlling your orgasms,” or, “There we go, my cock is
locked up again, until the next time I need it.”
You get the idea, anything to remind him that you are in control will excite him and keep him happy for quite a while.
Tease and Denial: I think this is the most
important part of chastity and also a successful female led
relationship. There are numerous entire web sites and articles with
ideas out there, so I will let you find your own fun ideas, but I would
like to remind you that it doesn’t have to last only an hour, there are
ways to tease your sub all day without having to lift a finger.
1. Have him shave all his pubic hair. It is
more comfortable wearing a cage when you are shaved anyway. Every time
his goes to the bathroom it will be another reminder of your control.
2. Assign him to make you a sex toy, or bondage device, like a leg spreader, or install eye bolts to tie him off to.
3. Assign him a list of chores you want complete, with the knowledge that if they are not done he will be punished.
4. Make him clean the house dressed as a woman.
5. Have him hand wash your panties and lingerie.
6. Have him run an errand for you wearing a butt plug.
7. Tell him you need new panties and you want
him to buy them for you. When He gives them to you, tell him you think
they will look better on him, and make him wear them.
8. Before he leaves for work, make him lick
your pussy and tell him that he has the privilege of smelling you every
time he inhales now.
9. You can set rules for him, like having to ask to use the bathroom, or having to address you as mistress or princess for the day.
Punishments: Punishments can be fun, or they can be
just that, Punishments. I think any female led relationship should have
both. Just having “fun” punishments promotes behavior from the sub
that is unacceptable, because he enjoys the punishment and acts up in
order to get it. For punishments that are meant to correct behavior or
habits, he should be aware that you are truly unhappy with what he has
done, that you love him very much, and that the punishment is meant to
hurt. After the punishment reinforce that you love him, and you did
what you did to help him be a better partner. I can say 100% of the
time that your partner will love you for it, gain respect for you in the
relationship, and be far more excited because it now seems real to
him. With just playful punishments, he may still view this as a game.
Here are some playful punishments:
1. Have him lick your ass, as you watch TV or
read a book. Make sure to give him plenty of direction and
encouragement, and tease him a bit as well. Lets face it, sex is 90%
mental. Say things like, “I love my little brown noser,” or “get your
tongue in there or that cage stays locked for another week.” It’s
important that you make do a good job, not just lick your butt cheeks,
the excitement for the sub is all mental, being made to lick your ass,
the punishment part is making him really do it.
2. During a teasing session, if he starts
moving too much or getting overly close to orgasm, take off your
panties, put the gusset on his face and tell him they can keep him
company while you go get a drink.
3. Have him run you a bath, wash your body,
lotion your legs, dress you, even paint your toe nails. Keep it
exciting for him by telling him how happy you are he is in chastity, and
how you would hate to lose his enthusiasm, so you may never remove the
device.
4. Have him wear panties and stockings to work
under his work clothes, no one but you and he will know. He will be on
high alert all day hoping no one notices. You can text him from time to
time to remind him of his situation!
5. If he keeps asking to be let out of his cage, take off your panties and gag him with them.
6. Play a little trivia game with him, tie his
hands up, play with him until he is excited, and ask him if he knows how
to please you, he will of course say yes, then you can say “great! We
are going to play a game, I will ask you some questions about me, when
you are right I will stroke your cock, when you are wrong, I will slap
it.” Ask away! You can ask him anything from your favorite color to
your favorite sexual position!
7. Tens units are a lot of fun as well, as they
can be used to provide great pleasure, or a small amount of pain. They
can make a great training tool used correctly.
8. Take all his boring male underwear, and
replace them with panties, and tell him he has to earn his underwear
back, and he should wear the panties till he does.
9. Hoods can be a lot of fun. Get one with a
gag and use some ear plugs and he won’t know when or where you are going
to give him pleasure (or pain).
10. Spankings of course are a favorite, using your
hand or a paddle its pretty tough to really hurt him, so spank away.
Careful with some of the switches or canes, as you can actually draw
blood with enough force.
11. If he comes without permission, I consider that
a pretty serious offense. The whole idea of the relationship is that
he is giving you control of his orgasms, if he takes that back, its just
a sex game to him again. If he is unable to control himself any more,
he should be able to talk to you seriously and explain the situation and
let YOU decide when and how he orgasms. Taking it upon himself is
unacceptable. He should get a serious punishment, be locked back up, in
his cage immediately, and made to lick up his mess.
12. Ruined orgasms can be very effective. There
are plenty of videos and articles on how they work and how to cause
them, so I will not go into it, but they take some practice to get it
right. When you do get it right, it actually will leave your sub just
as horny, but leaves you with the leverage of saying “you just had an
orgasm!” You know you did it right if his seed simply flows out with no
“burst”, also just watching his face will tell you!
Like I said there has to be more than just fun punishments.
Sometimes, he will need to be corrected. This prevents him from
“topping from the bottom” or controlling what you have him do.
Certainly he has to get some of what he wants, but he should not be able
to “force you to force him” that is not how it works, and is not as
much fun for him or you. Punishments are also great ways to “tweek” his
behavior or attitude towards you, if he is acting moody or speaking
disrespectfully to you, simply tell him of your concern, explain what
you expect from him, and proceed with the punishment. Its amazing how
quickly a good spanking will get a man back in “subspace” where he is
loving and respectful. Some punishments can include:
The easiest and usually most effective is spanking. It is both
humiliating and a bit painful for the sub. You can use your hand, a
hairbrush, cane, switch, paddle, flogger, crop, shoe, anything really.
Make sure he knows the reason, make sure he knows you love him, make
sure he knows it is going to hurt. When its done hug him, tell him
again you love him, and reinforce with him that you don’t want that
behavior to continue, as it is upsetting his keyholder.
You can put spikes in his chastity cage. Be careful here as I have
heard of some people actually getting a bruised or cut penis from some
of the spikes available for some devices.
Being tied in an uncomfortable position for a period of time. This
can really be painful and uncomfortable, and gives the sub time to
reflect on what he did.
Prolonging his release date. Yep, that’s pretty effective. Although it really only works if you have a set release date.
Withholding teasing sessions. What your sub craves most of all is
your attention, so withholding it is about the worst thing that you can
do to him. Be careful here though because after a few days in chastity
your sub is going to be pretty emotionally vulnerable, and could easily
feel neglected by being ignored. So, if you are withholding your
attention make sure he knows why and that he is just not being put on
the back burner for something more important than he.
When you feel the time comes for your sub to have full
orgasm I encourage you to let him build up to it, and make it special. I
also could not encourage you more, that if you want to continue with
his current lock up, that you ask him. That’s right ask him! Say
something like, “You have been a very good boy and have earned an
orgasm, but I am really enjoying myself, and don’t want to have to start
all over, when you are so horny and loving right now. If you ask me
to, I will put you back in your device, and I will promise to be more
demanding, more cruel, more kinky, and an all around better keyholder.”
I would make sure he is right on the edge of an orgasm when you do this
as it will really drive him crazy! Be prepared, he will eventually say
he needs an orgasm, don’t look at it as him rejecting you, look at it
as nature overpowering his need to submit. If he does choose to orgasm,
if you would like to continue his chastity, and devotion to you, make
sure he puts his device on immediately after he has his orgasm. When a
man has an orgasm, he immediately loses all his submissiveness, and it
is important to have him in his device to start building it again.
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