Rewad your post abot notting your husband have anything since 2016, How selfish are you? I’d bail on you in aheartbeat.

keephimcaged:

marie-kaefer:

onlyshecums:

“notting your husband have anything since 2016“- that’s not true. You misunderstand teasing and denial.

I’m not selfish at all. My husband gets love and adoration every single day. He gets sexually stimulated to the edge of wanting to orgasm every single day.

How many husbands can brag that their wife touches their dick every single day? Gets them hard every single day? Brings them to the brink of orgasm every single day? Lets them eat pussy every single day? I’m going to say a minority. It’s just a guess, but I hear about locker-room talk and more men bitch about their cold distant wives than brag about how hot their wife is in bed. Maybe that’s why some men bail, because they aren’t getting enough attention from their wife. I don’t think its the orgasm count per se so much as the attention count. The daily affirmation of love, with or without an orgasm.

Teasing and denial isn’t about a lack of attention, or ignoring your husband or his needs. Teasing and denial is about stoking those needs—often—and making them rage like an uncontrolled wildfire, but keeping that fire burning white hot without letting it boiling over and exploding into ashes.

Maybe some men WOULD bail on me, because I’m sure teasing and denial isn’t for everyone, but, we’re happy, so there’s that.

This is so true! Thank you for this post!

Some really important points here! Thank you for sharing.

denyandedge:

thelovelybrokenwhore:

You hadn’t meant to ruin your orgasm, you really hadn’t. You dropped your vibrator, feeling your pussy spasm emptily and you whimpered at the loss, feeling distraught. All kinds of emotions washed over you and in no time at all your arousal returned, even stronger. And yet you enjoyed this new feeling. You were a denial slut now, no denying it anymore.

You better not cum without permission

femaleleduniversity:

desperationandenial:

A philosophy of denial

Being denied is not as simple as just allowing the other person to repeatedly bring you to the edge of orgasm, it’s a discipline, an exercise, a skill, a release (or lack thereof), and most of all it’s about the balance of power.

Sex is pleasurable, it is a good feeling to cum. But being denied is euphoric. The state of arousal that follows being denied over and over again can be described no other way, though some may use frustrating. Not everyone can handle this euphoria but those that can wish nothing more than bathe to it.

To have a person in the position as the posts gif shows is just a small example of the intense pleasure one can derive. Just like many pleasurable things in life it is the journey you saviour. Will this man remember, despite it being unquestionably amazing, the 5-10 second orgasm more? Or will he remember the minutes if not hours of constant arousal and teasing as his partner repeats the process ad nauseam? Each edge only makes him more hard, more red, more sensitive, and more in a state of pure bliss and frustration.

Everything else in your life floods away as all you can bring your attention to is your aching, swollen and leaking genitals as they are manipulated to bring you indescribable pleasures without that final release. Some people consider the feeling to be trance-like and it can be quite a hypnotic process, one has a lot of control over their ‘victim’ if they can achieve this. 

Allowing someone to bring you to a state akin to that where you are so vulnerable and sensitive is something special and not to be underestimated.   

Tease, edge, and deny him often.  Orgasmic release should be rare for him and earned.

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