So, a last warning, tomorrow we’re going to try our first extended lock up – five days with little or no release from his cage.
Of course being in the cage for an extended period doesn’t mean no stimulation, no no that would be boring! So tonight we are going to do a bit more exploring of one of the main pleasure areas besides the cock, so he’s more ready for it once locked up. His bottom!
We mainly explored playing on the outside the other night. Now we’re going to add that other element if you haven’t already – penetration.
If you’ve got some experience in anal play and he’s home during the day or when he gets home you might want to get him to wear the plug (or for real pros, even wear it to work!). Let him prepare himself and put it in that first time, and then I suggest you make your freshly plugged man eat your pussy!
However most of the fun is going to happen in the evening. After a thorough shower and butt wash, snuggle up with a couple of drinks (booze is lube for the mind!), and unlock and begin to play with him, and then talk through what anal means for him. Discuss how it went the other night if you did that, just be open about how it was for both of you. You may discover he’s experimented quite a lot, alternatively you may find he is very worried about the penetration side ‘being gay’. Take the chance to talk anything through and emphasise that it’s just another way to give him pleasure and turn him on, and he’s very lucky to have the prostate gland up there that can actually feel amazing (something we women don’t).
Unlock him and start to play with his cock and add the fact that you like the idea of him being plugged for you as he’s getting used to the cage now and this is another reminder that he’s denied and to keep him even hornier.
Full Lockdown
Just don’t unlock him but do the rest!
Now, keep stimulating him and begin to reach down and rub his perineum (the gap between his balls and arse) and then the entrance to his bum. Lots of lube, lots of rubbing, and then begin to push a finger in as you play. If you want to you can slip a condom over your finger, some might even like the rubber glove medical look! Get him to describe how it feels all the time. He needs to be relaxed and enjoying himself for it to feel good.
Now, if you’ve got one, grab the butt plug and start to use it instead of your finger, playing around the entrance then into him with again more lube. The magic moment is when he’s stretched open with it and then his bum sucks it up and it settle into place.
This is why you NEVER use anything without a flanged base for this kind of play, or you’ll end up with a very embarrassing trip to the hospital!
Depending on the plug design you can fuck it in and out all the way or just smaller depths, whatever feels best really. Keep getting his feedback.Once the plug is in it might be a good opportunity to get him down on his knees eating your pussy and you can judge if it helps his performance!
If he’s really getting into this you might want to upgrade the plug to a dildo. You could get him to do it at this point if you wish, or try it yourself. Just be careful, you do NOT want to make him cum, and that’s very possible. So just go slow and don’t be too enthusiastic, this is just training! We want his balls nice and full for the coming lock up!
If you want, finish with an edge or two and leave the plug in him longer or even overnight!
If you haven’t cum yet, then make sure that happens!
Some tips: you can add a condom to the butt plug if you want ease of cleaning, they work better with some than others. You MUST use a condom on the dildo if you use it on yourself (although with silicon or glass dildos a really good clean with proper soap and water and a toy cleaner should be fine.)
If you don’t use a condom on butt plug, either go to the bathroom to take it out or have a little plastic bag by the bed to pop it in to keep things clean. If you’ve washed yourself out well before it should be fine but it’s still your bum!
So, as with the warning about butt plugs in advance, you should know I’m planning to do a session where you try pegging near the ‘climax’ of Locktober, so, if you fancy exploring that (and remember even if you don’t it’s brilliant for HIM to wear when caged so you can still be fucked) then check out the amazing range at our favourite store Lovehoney
So, in a few days we’re going to try an extended lock up of five days for the first time in Locktober – little or no release for their cock that whole time. (Yes yes, I know some of you are doing that the whole month, including us, but many aren’t!)
Now we want them pretty horny going into that, so we’ll get a couple of days tease and denial in so that the news they aren’t going to get out for another five really has impact.
So before we build up and keep them caged for longer, let’s have some moer fun with ruined orgasms while we don’t mind too much it lowers their libido a bit. Those balls should be nicely full now, let’s have some fun emptying them!
To do this we’re going to use a variation on a game that I posted early on in this blog – the ruined orgasm challenge! (The whole thing is available here and designed to be done over a week or so)
So I saw this on http://beautifulsecrets42.tumblr.com/ and loved the idea but there were bits of it I didn’t like so I’ve changed some, hope you like my take on it.
I’ve deliberately left six of them so if you wanted to make it into a game of chance, you can roll the dice to see which one you do. Or you can just work through them, or she picks which she fancies! Many of the full lockdown ones will be exercises in frustration so maybe try them and move on until you find one that works.
The game finishes when he can’t ruin any more or when you’re bored and want him to go down on you to make you cum instead!
If you liked the videos of ruined orgasms you can also revisit that post:
Jerk off in front of her and let go of your cock as soon as you start cumming. You can cum on your own belly or on the floor…or if she’s into it onto her face or breasts!
She must edge you with a blowjob. When you start to cum she will let your cock out of her mouth and just watch you squirt.
You must fuck her and ruin your orgasm on her skin, and then lick it up
You must be eating her out, in 69, or sideways 69 or her sitting on your face as she jerks you off, and she is to ruin you as she orgasms herself.
You have to put your legs up on the bed or the wall so your cock is over your mouth and she will wank you and then ruin you directly into your own mouth
You must find a way to cum in her mouth with a ruined orgasm (so her BJ, you wank, or she wanks) and then she will kiss you and you share the cum
And now the Full Lockdown version – welcome to frustration
Try to wank yourself to a ruin in your cage while she sits behind you and plays with your nipples
She wanks you with a male masturbator on the cage till you ruin, if you can
Add a cock extender to the cage and have sex with her until you ruin or she cums
Try a prostate massager or prostate/g-spot vibe in you to see if you can milk your prostate to a ruined orgasm
Wanked with the male masturbator, ruined in it and then squeezed into your mouth
BJ on the cage from her until you ruin and then she kisses you
Thanks to “Teasingfun” who Beautifulsecrets credited for ideas
Girls often message me wanting to be trained I know most girls do that because they are feeling horny. Most girls will flake when you give them a training schedule so here is one you can follow by your self
1 week
Get a suction cup dildo and place it on the wall. You will suck this dildo for 10 mins each day. I’d advise you to do it after you brush your teeth and get ready for bed so you have a consistent and easy to follow task.
Get a butt plug 3 days out of the week you will wear it for at least 1-2 hours. When you get off work/school you get home you will plug your ass
You will get 1 random day of the week you are not allowed to wear underwear this makes quick access possible
Riding your dildo 3 times a week for 20 mins stick it to the wall or the floor and ride it like a little slut
It was many years ago. You know, I wanted to it juste like that…And because I read men could have deep pleasure with their prostate.
One day, I bought a strapon. I was very excited to wear it on me. In the beginning, I didn’t recognize me in the mirror… I remeber I found ridiculous the image that I saw in it.
But, you know, there was someting else I didn’t catch. I touched this strange dick and then I thought it could be fun… I felt a bit childish, you know. I wanted to all this stupid stuff of boys I had never done.
I really wanted to experience something new.
And it was really amusing to play with a girl cock… How should I wear my strapon and my hard-on cock. Up or Down?
And wich sensation would I have if I masturbate that… But when I wanted to train me with it… just you know, to fuck like a man…
…my husband entered into the room. He didn’’t laugh and was looking at me, fascinated by my movement and my new girl cock…
I remember he wanted to play first with my strapon. I saw how he was very hard-on when he touched it!
Then I decided to penetrate him with my girl cock… He didn’t say “no”. It was very strange. I could feel his heart beating when I pronounced these words: “I want to fuck you with my dick like you used to do”.
But when I approched of his ass, I was so afraid to hurt him… Would I dare to do it? I looked his ass calling me… Calling me so hard… His little hole was almost opened… So I did it…
I put my strapon right into his ass, but softly and with love. When my cock completly disapeared, I didn’t dare to move. First, I saw his ass doing it. So, I thought “Let’s go right now!”
And I did it slowly… very slowly… I fucked his ass and I could feel how he loved that…
And I couldn’t keep in asking him if it didn’t hurt him, cause his voice could say both: pain or pleasure. Quiet terrifying for me who didn’t know movements to fuck. So I kept the rythm… Again and again… And he said: “Oh yes… Oh yes… Again!”. I lauged in silence, because the same words were in my mind: “Again and again!”..
So I insisted: “You’re sure it won’t hurt you?”. I remember he ansewered: “No, you don’t, MAKE IT HARDER!”.
So I did it harder. And then we tried new positions… It was very disturbing to move my body and to caress him like that…
I had to find a new way to give him pleasure. Everything was completly new for me.. and for him too! I liked to stroke him in the same time. His dick wasn’t as hard as usually.
It began great. I fucked him and nothing counted around me except his ass and his voice saying “Again!”. I felt slowly how it was exciting to play with my girl cock and to discover how he liked that.
And then it happened… I couldn’t believe my eyes. I fucked my man and he cumed as if my girl dick was a real one!
And when we stopped, I thought: “The next time, I hope he won’t cum so fast…”. Just because I wanted his dick for me, you know… I wanted to be fucked by him…
It was my pegging’s beginning. Now I like his ass very much and I like to fuck him. Pegging is still something strange for me. I am a woman but I feel myself more than a woman. I feel in me the power and the strenghth of men. Shoud Y say the power of cocks? Yes, it is.
So pegging is our secret. A beautiful secret!
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Welcome to the magic world of “lepeggingamoureux.tumblr.com”…
There seems to be a decent amount of confusion among the new generation of male sluts when it comes to eating pussy. Some seem to think it doesn’t really matter and it is just a foreplay thing, Others just plain suck at them (pun intended). I think it’s important you learn exactly what you need to do to please a woman with your mouth if you want to be a proper slut, and that is what this post will do.
1) Eye Contact
One of the most underrated skills needed to be a good pussy worshiper is maintaining eye contact. Watching your Queen’s reactions to your ministrations as she rides wave after wave of pleasure adds a lot to eating pussy, She can look down and see you, her sweet submissive, in your proper place beneath her. So make sure to keep those eyes up.
2) Smothering
Anyone can lick a pussy, it takes a proper slut to choke and gasp on a sloppy wet pussy as it fills his throat with its juices. Working on taking in oxygen when its available and simultaneously licking every inch of the pussy in front of you is not only suggested, it’s necessary if you plan on fully pleasing a woman who sits on your face.
3) Tongue-work
It’s not as simple as just flicking her clit or letting her grind your face until she cums, technique is important and making sure you use your tongue as efficiently as possible will make or break a pussy worship session.
4) Work the Anus
The pussy is not the only part of woman that feels good when licked, and a good submissive male will always make sure to give the proper attention to a woman’s anus. Nothing says I am yours to own and control than literally kissing her ass.
5) Cumeating
Following intercourse, if your woman has granted you permission to cum inside her pussy consider it the greatest honor, it is only proper that you should repay this honor by cleaning her pussy thoroughly of both of your fluids. Doing this will put you back into your proper sub-space following ejaculation when your sexual desire wanes. Additionally, given the female is multi-orgasmic the stimulation from your cleaning will prolong the event for her. This act alone will insure you will be known as the best cunnilinguist out of your wife’s friend group.
V This is the ULTIMATE goal, EVERYTIME!! V
Read the above. Then get your tongue to Vienna, Austria so you can begin your training!
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